Why does the rose hurt me, when all I’m trying to do is remove it’s thorns to make it more beautiful?
Because you’re trying to change it.
But won’t the thorns hurt me?
They shall, but if you want the beautiful rose,you have to show that you’re worthy of it as well.
So how do I prove myself then?
Don’t try to change it, my dear, rather accept it with all it’s flaws and pain and then it shall happily bloom once again.